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Do it more with less "EPHEMERALIZATION"
I found this post very meaningfull and just want to be recorded here for my own reference on the future:
儿™ - "EPHEMERALIZATION", This word changed my life.
Meaning; "To do more with less, to reach more with little, to give more with sharings, eventually to do everything with nothing".
TO : ALL MY DEAR FRIENDS
"I sincerely hope that this message may change your life, and also the life of many others by reaching out to every corner of every single person's mind"
Life was once very harsh on me... However, never once in my life i made a single "complain".
Change your "Words",
Change your "Perceptions",
Change your "Actions",
Change your "Life".
Everyone owns a "Life" and it is contained within the same shell which is our body, our body may age and fade, but our spirit remains. Hence we all have a unique mind to think,
a heart to feel,
a pair of eyes to observe,
a nose to breath,
a taste to experience bitter and sour or sweetness,
a lips to praise and compliment,
an ears to listen to others,
hands to give or reach out,
Feets to climb up and to progress,
While we are all living in the same world.
Why god made every single individual unique by its own and but why do we all own a different life?
Words, Action and Perception made who you are today.
Are we actually being given EQUALITY in life? By who? By god? Or by our mum and dad that manufactered us? Who made us actually? Who or What gave us Life? I believe theres no answer for this... to me "LIFE IS A MIRACLE".
However...
Why are some people born blind?
Why are some born deaf?
Why are some born in africa living poverty?
Why are some born down syndrome?
Why are some born disabled?
There MUST be reasons why we are born in "ONE FULL PIECE" and in perfect working condition, but i couldnt figure out the answer WHY? And therefore i think we shall be grateful on how and who we are today and where we are standing now. "Atleast"....
Only One unique word i believe that made our mother nature plural that is "KARMA" that set where we belongs, but i dont believe our life are being scripted or somehow being designed where we shall be later. Destiny is where we will design for ourself.
Im a man who live up with my principle, as i always tell to myself "NATURE CREATED MY TIME, BUT I DESIGN MY OWN LIFE". Life has no boundaries and possibilities are beyond imagination. Time and Life are priceless and i do NOT sell them for a price. We can scale or measure Time, but not Life... and life exists without a measurement of "number".
Yesterday was a memory...
Today was a gift...
Tommorow will be a bonus...
Think... Did u actually take any initiative before, sitting quietly to yourself, considering that life is so "Fragile" that with a snap of a finger? You may be gone... FOREVER! Where will you be by then? Up or down there? Does it even exist? 4th dimension? Forget it... Just ask yourself now... Did u live your life? Or did u took it for granted? Or did u live for someone else? Or are u living just for the sake living just because you are still alive?
Well, I strongly do not believe that life has to be only about "Monetary Gains" but rather to be a set of memories that we will owned it forever. The most precious assets in life are your stored memories, that you are able bring it whenever & wherever you are. Remember, we will never ever own a single thing in life, we only manage it for a period of time while we are still breathing.
It is often very dificult for a person to understand the philosophy of "HOW TO LET GO" when most of the people think they doesnt posses anything. Why do we need to be stubborn enough to posses that "something"?
Life has never been easy to me, but i too never consider it tough. Its just a journey that is full of "Challenges & Tasks" NOT "Obstacles".
Now... I am where i am now. People say to me, wah u very successful ah. U tycoon la. U have everything almost every men ever dreamed off.
In my heart, i will be saying "duh... You can never imagine what i have been through in life. As if everything falls from the sky for me or my Papa Mama give to me ah".
In chinese sayings "千金难买少年穷”
Which means "A thousand taels of gold may not buy the feeling and experience of a poor childhood".
How i wish i have a Sugar Godfather like the sugar babys... But, its ok la, i have my own hands and feet.
Cumon la bros & sis, i took the initiative to work things out step by step, bits by bits, tears, blood and sweat, hardship and determination on what i am stubborn enough and insist to want how i want my life to be no matter how difficult it is.
Everyday in the media, u only see these few succesful public figures being reviewed again and again and again, like The idol of all generations "Robert Kuok, Li Ka Shing, Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Jack Ma, Mark Z, Larry Elison, Armancio, Richard Branson, bla bla bla... and many many more. The many many MORE added up is only a few hundreds of them among the 5 billions living on this earth.
Wake up!!! Be practical abit. Do some maths la ok?
1,000 among 5,000,000,000.
With all these editors everyday writing about "how to be succesful like them"? Oh yea... Isit really true? After reading and knowing these traits of the succesful people from the writtings of all these "Salary Earner Editor" and you will become successful like them? Really ah? Reading what a "Salary Earner Write" on How to become a Millionaire, you can really become a Millionaire? Or by Reading a few motivational or leadership book, and u will become succesful like them? Or attending some motivational courses or workshop and u can become a Millionaire?
How? how to become a Millionaire?
By Paying Anthony Robbins USD10,000 for a few hours of monkey show? Together with other thousands of peoples turning on Pop Songs & Hoo Hah Hoo Hah in the stadium?
Or by reading all Robert Kiyosaki's 30 different series books? That u without knowing all the books are mostly similar content. Or even paying Robert Kiyosaki USD10,000 to see him hiring some "EMPLOYEE SPEAKERS" to run the show for him and talk to you at the same time together with other hundreds participants? with the world reknown brand endorsed by the world best seller Financial Guru Rich Dad Poor Dad?
Yes u will... In your dreams perhaps, or maybe your next 1000 lives. You may not like what i say but sadly to say that "TRUTHS ARE UGLY" and im telling u the truth by giving you a WAKE UP CALL.
Anyway, instead of reading what those "Salary Earners Editor" wrote, why not you give me only ONE opportunity to share with you how i look at things in my own humble personal views. Atleast i would be more practical to tell you in reality how its been done and it is definitely EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to achieve. **READ ON...!!!
I strongly suggest you to buy a book from this author called "STEVEN SIEBOLD". He has written alot of articles from his findings that he have interviewed thousands of Successful Entrepenuers globally, and he concluded with a simple theory which says;
"In regards of how intelligent, knowledgable or hardworking a person is, if his ATTITUTE is not on the right track, then no matter how hard a person tried, he will not succeed".
According to what i learnt from Steven Siebold findings, If u ask me how to somehow be succesful in life, i would tell you the first thing to change or improve is your "ATTITUTE, WORDS, PERCEPTION, MENTALITY, WISDOM, and lastly your EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ)"
A wiseman once said;
"A person who is intelligent enough to handle a situation may not neccesarily able to handle it WISELY".
To be honest, base on my humble suggestion to be somehow succesful or progressing in life in achieving something is all about possesing the "ELEMENTS OF A SUCCESSFUL PERSON" which are;
Hardworking,
Intelligent,
Knowledgable,
Wisdom,
EQ + IQ,
Experience,
Highly Anticipation,
Determination,
Patience,
Dedication,
Initiative,
Generous,
Combination of Stubborness and Flexibility,
Adaptive to any environment,
Survival Skills,
Ability to be insulted & humiliated,
Courage on Competition,
Correction on Errors,
Bravery & Boldness,
Admit failures,
Commitments,
Responsibility,
Able to take up burden,
Filial Piety,
Contributions,
Willing to Learn,
Put away your Ego,
Live with Pride & Dignity,
Be Humble,
Praise & Compliment more,
Do NOT insult and humiliate others,
Listen & Observe more than Talk and reject others,
Freedom of speech,
Freedom of Life,
Kind & Symphaty,
Ethics & Moral,
Strong mentality,
High spiritual motivation,
Pshycologically Leveraging,
Respect & Honor,
Reputation & Goodwill,
Blessings,
Discipline,
Principle,
Stay Positive,
Luck,
Grateful for others,
Happy for others,
Put away Jealousy,
Always standing on others position to think,
For a person who carries such Personality Traits, if he is still not succesful in life then i think its only for one reason... "GOD'S WILL".
Everyday, i hear people saying who and who is succesful, who and who is rich.
Everyday, i hear people complain, this that this that...
First of all, i will not envy those who are succesful and then go and copy or follow that succesful person's footstep or pathway? Do u know how slim your chances are to be another "Mark Zuckerberg or Warren Buffet". Practically "0%" 😂. NO WAY...! Thats not my style. In this world there are only a fraction of such individuals. Rather than copying and always envying such succesful figures, i prefer looking at those majority who FAILED & STRUGGLED, then thinking and analysing that "WHAT CAUSED THEM TO FAIL & STRUGGLE". There must be a reason why the majority struggles, so if i do not want to fail or struggle like them, i must find out the ROOT CAUSE and avoid commiting the same mistakes like them. If i dont fail or struggle like them, means i am way better off. Instead of copying and dreaming to be another "Warren Buffet". Isint it simple?
Second of all, i will not follow the herd to complain. You must clearly know that, when there are complains, OPPORTUNITY EXISTS. If there arent any problem, why would people complain? There must be a reason or root cause to that complain. And if you are able to figure out a SOLUTION to that complain, "YOUR VALUE EXIST" and "PEOPLE WILL PAY YOU A PRICE FOR YOUR SOLUTION". Remember? PRICE ONLY EXISTS WHEN VALUE EXISTS. i strongly believe that in any up and downside situation, humans forever are not possible to please so there will still be complainsssssss no matter what. You want to be succesful? Figure out a solution and solve the complaining herd's problems. Then you are SOMEBODY UNIQUE among the herd.
I think thats enough for now. There is NO accurate answer or formula how to be successful.
I hope my above humble sharings wil shed you some lights somehow as a guide to avoid Struggling in life instead of lying to you that after reading this you will be Successfull 😂🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I wish you goodluck and all the best in finding other people's problem and then solve it for them. Before finding other's problem, FIND OUT YOUR OWN PROBLEM FIRST.
儿™ - "EPHEMERALIZATION", This word changed my life.
Meaning; "To do more with less, to reach more with little, to give more with sharings, eventually to do everything with nothing".
TO : ALL MY DEAR FRIENDS
"I sincerely hope that this message may change your life, and also the life of many others by reaching out to every corner of every single person's mind"
Life was once very harsh on me... However, never once in my life i made a single "complain".
Change your "Words",
Change your "Perceptions",
Change your "Actions",
Change your "Life".
Everyone owns a "Life" and it is contained within the same shell which is our body, our body may age and fade, but our spirit remains. Hence we all have a unique mind to think,
a heart to feel,
a pair of eyes to observe,
a nose to breath,
a taste to experience bitter and sour or sweetness,
a lips to praise and compliment,
an ears to listen to others,
hands to give or reach out,
Feets to climb up and to progress,
While we are all living in the same world.
Why god made every single individual unique by its own and but why do we all own a different life?
Words, Action and Perception made who you are today.
Are we actually being given EQUALITY in life? By who? By god? Or by our mum and dad that manufactered us? Who made us actually? Who or What gave us Life? I believe theres no answer for this... to me "LIFE IS A MIRACLE".
However...
Why are some people born blind?
Why are some born deaf?
Why are some born in africa living poverty?
Why are some born down syndrome?
Why are some born disabled?
There MUST be reasons why we are born in "ONE FULL PIECE" and in perfect working condition, but i couldnt figure out the answer WHY? And therefore i think we shall be grateful on how and who we are today and where we are standing now. "Atleast"....
Only One unique word i believe that made our mother nature plural that is "KARMA" that set where we belongs, but i dont believe our life are being scripted or somehow being designed where we shall be later. Destiny is where we will design for ourself.
Im a man who live up with my principle, as i always tell to myself "NATURE CREATED MY TIME, BUT I DESIGN MY OWN LIFE". Life has no boundaries and possibilities are beyond imagination. Time and Life are priceless and i do NOT sell them for a price. We can scale or measure Time, but not Life... and life exists without a measurement of "number".
Yesterday was a memory...
Today was a gift...
Tommorow will be a bonus...
Think... Did u actually take any initiative before, sitting quietly to yourself, considering that life is so "Fragile" that with a snap of a finger? You may be gone... FOREVER! Where will you be by then? Up or down there? Does it even exist? 4th dimension? Forget it... Just ask yourself now... Did u live your life? Or did u took it for granted? Or did u live for someone else? Or are u living just for the sake living just because you are still alive?
Well, I strongly do not believe that life has to be only about "Monetary Gains" but rather to be a set of memories that we will owned it forever. The most precious assets in life are your stored memories, that you are able bring it whenever & wherever you are. Remember, we will never ever own a single thing in life, we only manage it for a period of time while we are still breathing.
It is often very dificult for a person to understand the philosophy of "HOW TO LET GO" when most of the people think they doesnt posses anything. Why do we need to be stubborn enough to posses that "something"?
Life has never been easy to me, but i too never consider it tough. Its just a journey that is full of "Challenges & Tasks" NOT "Obstacles".
Now... I am where i am now. People say to me, wah u very successful ah. U tycoon la. U have everything almost every men ever dreamed off.
In my heart, i will be saying "duh... You can never imagine what i have been through in life. As if everything falls from the sky for me or my Papa Mama give to me ah".
In chinese sayings "千金难买少年穷”
Which means "A thousand taels of gold may not buy the feeling and experience of a poor childhood".
How i wish i have a Sugar Godfather like the sugar babys... But, its ok la, i have my own hands and feet.
Cumon la bros & sis, i took the initiative to work things out step by step, bits by bits, tears, blood and sweat, hardship and determination on what i am stubborn enough and insist to want how i want my life to be no matter how difficult it is.
Everyday in the media, u only see these few succesful public figures being reviewed again and again and again, like The idol of all generations "Robert Kuok, Li Ka Shing, Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Jack Ma, Mark Z, Larry Elison, Armancio, Richard Branson, bla bla bla... and many many more. The many many MORE added up is only a few hundreds of them among the 5 billions living on this earth.
Wake up!!! Be practical abit. Do some maths la ok?
1,000 among 5,000,000,000.
With all these editors everyday writing about "how to be succesful like them"? Oh yea... Isit really true? After reading and knowing these traits of the succesful people from the writtings of all these "Salary Earner Editor" and you will become successful like them? Really ah? Reading what a "Salary Earner Write" on How to become a Millionaire, you can really become a Millionaire? Or by Reading a few motivational or leadership book, and u will become succesful like them? Or attending some motivational courses or workshop and u can become a Millionaire?
How? how to become a Millionaire?
By Paying Anthony Robbins USD10,000 for a few hours of monkey show? Together with other thousands of peoples turning on Pop Songs & Hoo Hah Hoo Hah in the stadium?
Or by reading all Robert Kiyosaki's 30 different series books? That u without knowing all the books are mostly similar content. Or even paying Robert Kiyosaki USD10,000 to see him hiring some "EMPLOYEE SPEAKERS" to run the show for him and talk to you at the same time together with other hundreds participants? with the world reknown brand endorsed by the world best seller Financial Guru Rich Dad Poor Dad?
Yes u will... In your dreams perhaps, or maybe your next 1000 lives. You may not like what i say but sadly to say that "TRUTHS ARE UGLY" and im telling u the truth by giving you a WAKE UP CALL.
Anyway, instead of reading what those "Salary Earners Editor" wrote, why not you give me only ONE opportunity to share with you how i look at things in my own humble personal views. Atleast i would be more practical to tell you in reality how its been done and it is definitely EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to achieve. **READ ON...!!!
I strongly suggest you to buy a book from this author called "STEVEN SIEBOLD". He has written alot of articles from his findings that he have interviewed thousands of Successful Entrepenuers globally, and he concluded with a simple theory which says;
"In regards of how intelligent, knowledgable or hardworking a person is, if his ATTITUTE is not on the right track, then no matter how hard a person tried, he will not succeed".
According to what i learnt from Steven Siebold findings, If u ask me how to somehow be succesful in life, i would tell you the first thing to change or improve is your "ATTITUTE, WORDS, PERCEPTION, MENTALITY, WISDOM, and lastly your EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ)"
A wiseman once said;
"A person who is intelligent enough to handle a situation may not neccesarily able to handle it WISELY".
To be honest, base on my humble suggestion to be somehow succesful or progressing in life in achieving something is all about possesing the "ELEMENTS OF A SUCCESSFUL PERSON" which are;
Hardworking,
Intelligent,
Knowledgable,
Wisdom,
EQ + IQ,
Experience,
Highly Anticipation,
Determination,
Patience,
Dedication,
Initiative,
Generous,
Combination of Stubborness and Flexibility,
Adaptive to any environment,
Survival Skills,
Ability to be insulted & humiliated,
Courage on Competition,
Correction on Errors,
Bravery & Boldness,
Admit failures,
Commitments,
Responsibility,
Able to take up burden,
Filial Piety,
Contributions,
Willing to Learn,
Put away your Ego,
Live with Pride & Dignity,
Be Humble,
Praise & Compliment more,
Do NOT insult and humiliate others,
Listen & Observe more than Talk and reject others,
Freedom of speech,
Freedom of Life,
Kind & Symphaty,
Ethics & Moral,
Strong mentality,
High spiritual motivation,
Pshycologically Leveraging,
Respect & Honor,
Reputation & Goodwill,
Blessings,
Discipline,
Principle,
Stay Positive,
Luck,
Grateful for others,
Happy for others,
Put away Jealousy,
Always standing on others position to think,
For a person who carries such Personality Traits, if he is still not succesful in life then i think its only for one reason... "GOD'S WILL".
Everyday, i hear people saying who and who is succesful, who and who is rich.
Everyday, i hear people complain, this that this that...
First of all, i will not envy those who are succesful and then go and copy or follow that succesful person's footstep or pathway? Do u know how slim your chances are to be another "Mark Zuckerberg or Warren Buffet". Practically "0%" 😂. NO WAY...! Thats not my style. In this world there are only a fraction of such individuals. Rather than copying and always envying such succesful figures, i prefer looking at those majority who FAILED & STRUGGLED, then thinking and analysing that "WHAT CAUSED THEM TO FAIL & STRUGGLE". There must be a reason why the majority struggles, so if i do not want to fail or struggle like them, i must find out the ROOT CAUSE and avoid commiting the same mistakes like them. If i dont fail or struggle like them, means i am way better off. Instead of copying and dreaming to be another "Warren Buffet". Isint it simple?
Second of all, i will not follow the herd to complain. You must clearly know that, when there are complains, OPPORTUNITY EXISTS. If there arent any problem, why would people complain? There must be a reason or root cause to that complain. And if you are able to figure out a SOLUTION to that complain, "YOUR VALUE EXIST" and "PEOPLE WILL PAY YOU A PRICE FOR YOUR SOLUTION". Remember? PRICE ONLY EXISTS WHEN VALUE EXISTS. i strongly believe that in any up and downside situation, humans forever are not possible to please so there will still be complainsssssss no matter what. You want to be succesful? Figure out a solution and solve the complaining herd's problems. Then you are SOMEBODY UNIQUE among the herd.
I think thats enough for now. There is NO accurate answer or formula how to be successful.
I hope my above humble sharings wil shed you some lights somehow as a guide to avoid Struggling in life instead of lying to you that after reading this you will be Successfull 😂🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I wish you goodluck and all the best in finding other people's problem and then solve it for them. Before finding other's problem, FIND OUT YOUR OWN PROBLEM FIRST.
Monday 7 September 2015
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